Enhancing Sensual You

Most people believe sensuality is necessarily artificial – facial makeovers,plastic surgery,breast and penis enlargement,liposuction, weight loss and all that Hollywood makes us believe is cool and sexy.

Psychologically,nature has endowed individuals with falculties and instincts that make for high sensuality.Man is so sexually wired that he has no use for any mechanical means to enhance his libido or endear himself sensually to others .
Artifices have their place ,really.But they’re far from being the major factors that determine how sensual or sexual you can be or feel .The ugliest of men and women still find love and romance in their relationships – their warts, spots ,handicaps, and all notwithstanding.

However, ignorance of man’s sensual constitution has led to exploitation by commerce and industry.
America spends millions of dollars on cosmetics and beauty enhancement annually. It looks she’s the most sex-obsessed nation of the world..
That’s ok for America.
Let’s explore the psychology of sensuality now.

Faculties of Sensuality
Man is made up of five major faculties:
emotions
perception
imagination
memory
will
All these require volumes of post to explain.
I promise more later on.
Those faculties are the constituents of a sound mind in a human body.For our sensual needs,nature has provided us all of them, the most useful being the first three:
emotions
perception
imagination

Sensual Emotion
You’ve got ready-built in you seven different emotions.
Relevant to our topic are love and sex emotions.
Love
Sex
Anger
Jealousy
Fear
Hatred
Greed
Love and sex emotions properly transmuted will teach you intuitively to appreciate the carnal pleasure of your body in an erotic way with somebody you choose to love.
This mix radiates heavenly, sensual feelings that enthrall your true mate,and makes you winsome – in your soul – in spite of your shape, looks, or other aspects.
Your feelings now are spiritual.They’re unreasonable – blind.
Your proficient use of this faculty can naturally set you on a higher plane of sensual pleasures.

Sensual Perception
Perception is your peculiar way of viewing the world around you.Emmanuel Kant says:You see(perceive) what you are.
It’s the ability of the mind to interpret stimuli or respond to its environment in its peculiar way.Its personal and choosy.
The perception process starts from the senses – eyes,ears,nose,tongue,skin – as receptors – and goes fast to the brains – the processors – that interpret the stimuli.This happens in a flash.

Turn-on
I can hear myself sound like a geek of a psychologist, can’t you?
Now, here.
The clincher.
Your(brain)response is connected with certain chemicals (in your systems) which stimulate your libido,that vital force of life,according to Sigmud Freud.
Your degree of sexuality largely depends on your smart application of this faculty to interpret what you see(leer at),hear,smell,or feel – your stimulus – in your own erotic way .It could be your spouse – her curves, her arcs, odour , or his, voice ,muscle – or his/her picture, undies(fetish) – or anything like your moves, your bedroom, sheets , etc.
Don’t you see why Africans go dizzy on seeing ladies in swimsuits on the Bahamas beaches?

This is one easy-peasy way to connect sensually to your mate,present or absent,with your kinky perception of his/her body or its representative.
You call these turns-on!
A turn-on is more effective when it’s wrought with imagination – another faculty.
Maybe I’ll take that some other day.It’s a whole lot of sexy stuff!
Briefly now,let’s see the tips on enhancing the sensual you.

Tips on Higher Sensuality
 Learn to love genuinely – not just for sex
 Use auto-suggestion or self hypnosis to assert your sensual you
 Transcend your inhibitions. Be reckless.
 Fantasise.Use your falculty of imagination.
 Stay healthy. Live natural