Uninhibited Sensuality- Try It
January 23, 2009 at 4:40 pm Leave a comment
Sensual inhibition is any feeling that curtails your sensual freedom.
It’s any condition – fear, guilt, doubt, reservation – that represses the aggressive, creative, venturous aspect of sensuality in a male or female.
It’s imposed by self, society, religion, or whatever for the purpose of sanctity, modesty, or self-pity.
Life as well as sex is best enjoyed when you’re able to experience the realities , no matter how transient, of your sensual imagination –your fantasy.
Whatever restricts you from experimenting or attempting – as safely as possible – to embody your sensual fantasy is an inhibition.
Inhibition could be caused by one or all of the following:
Fear
Doubt
Society
Religion
The list is inexhaustible.
Fear
This could be unreasonable fear of the bloody show of a broken hymen, undersized penis, inability to orgasm, of being the first to ask for it ,and other trivia.
The effect of this is dampening of your sex drive, and deliberate disinterest in wildly exciting sexual relations.
Doubt
Doubt mostly affects men. You doubt your ability to perform – keep her quaking for as long as she wants – or get a rock-hard erection for hours, if it’s ever possible.
You’re impotent before you know it!
Religion
Some religions that allow marriage do emphasise continence as perquisite for spirituality.
The religious are forbidden to enjoy or explore sex in a conjugal relationship – or even transmute it for any creative or ingenuous purpose.
For these, sex is purely for breeding. You’re an anathema if you ever enjoy sex or feel sensual. Fellatio, varied sex positions – other than the missionary’s – mutual masturbation, foreplay, and whatever uninhibited sexual acts you can imagine are evil.
You end up a confused bigot here, with your secret fancies unrealized – all your life.
Society
There are still traditions and customs that inhibit sensuality in most cultures of the world. Africa readily comes to mind here. And some Arab cultures, too. There are also vestiges of the anti-sex missionary influences in North America.
Practices like female circumcision, gender inequality ,and other old wives’ tales tell negatively on your sensuality.
Trouble is: all these inhibitions could be ignorantly personalized as individual reservations or reasons for boring sensual life. You should understand you’re a product of your environment or social category.
Transcend your inhibition
The one fundamental right creation gives humanity is freedom – individual liberty. And more interestingly is your sexual freedom in a faithful relationship.
You experience this liberty in your imagination. No limit to the extent you can revel in the potential sensual pleasures your wild, uninhibited imagination holds for you.
Just push the limit. Break the mould. Explore your sensuality or your spouse’s. Get crazy. Be creative. Realise your hunches by just going for anything that catches your fancy.
It only hurts when you’re unfaithful, or harmful to others and your conscience.
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