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Heighten Your Sensuality with Color
If you’d been following the insights and tips on SensualityPlus, you’d already have understood the role of imagination and perception in enhancing sensuality.
Go back to those posts and refresh your mind.
Sensual Influence of Colors
Colors are a stimulus responded to by the sense of sight – the eye – and interpreted by the brain that then triggers certain reactions. Sensual feelings, appreciation, attraction or repulsion, are some of these reactions.
The interpretation of such reactions by the brain is basically derived from stored experience – memory – environmental influence, and personal belief of the individual.
So certain characteristics given to different colors are either cultural – variable, too – or experience-related.
For you lovers to increase your sensuality without going to so much trouble and expense, study to use colors to influence the perception of your mate’s erogenous zones (or the entire anatomy) and clothing, and your mutual romantic environment, like your bedroom.
Colors can also add tonic to your sensual fantasies.
Sexy colors
Black is a sexy color known to only highly imaginative lovers. These uncommon sex geniuses are also high in libido.
It’s just a matter of leaving their upbeat imagination to reel freely in what their eyes see – luscious bodies wrapped in black: appealing, seductive , and all.
Forget the sack cloth now.
You can discover the highly sensual you when you put on black, skin-tight wears like bikinis, tights ,pants ,bras and so on. Black ,loose lingeries are very seductive, too.
Purple is another generally acceptable color that makes spouses, particularly women, ravishing.
Silky purple as bikinis, bras, swimsuits, is provocatively sensual. The sight triggers the lust to touch, caress, or grope, especially if you’re in your bedroom with your lover.
Red color, on red skin, is a killer anywhere. Of course you’d remember the Scarlet Magazine here.
Hot pants , undies , bikinis , bras in red could be lust-provoking. Scanty ,red-colored wears are more appropriate in sunlight especially on beaches, spa resorts, and other places where a little exhibitionism is tolerated.
White material ,lace or see-through ,can equally lift your sensual feelings to a higher level.
White pants , bras , lingeries are great here.
Colorful Fetishism
Fetishism is the erotic act of provoking sexual desire by meditating on sex-related, non-human objects.
A fetish could be a picture, a piece of cloth, anything associated with your spouse or any part of his/her body.
When you combine colors with fetishes, and you let your imagination fly with it, you expect a cataclysmic sensuality for that moment.
Imagine the fit that seizes you when you hang your spouse’ ,sexy-colored pants , bra ,draws in the privacy of your home where your eyes can easily find them. These colored fetishes connect you sensually .They heighten your sexual urge.
And when you’re alone ,do silly things lover do with those fetishes.
Throw her netty white pants around in your sitting room. Serve his meal when you’re in your silky purple bikini ,or your see-through , black lingerie.
Result? A stormy, bed-quaking, sex round.
Sensuality in Touching
Touching, a stimulus of the skin , has various implications and responses in human beings. It could be sensual or painful.
You’ve experienced it one time or the other. Your body creeps and develops goose pimples on contact with the softness of a well stacked female body or the erogenous zones of your partner.
Petting
One of the potent ways of rousing or urging yourself or partner sensually is by touching – the body (skin), the genitals, and other spots. You call this petting.
This actually happens during foreplay, love-making, seducing or some other light sexual activities.
There are many features of a female anatomy that respond sensually in varying degrees to touch – with tongues ,fingers ,lips ,or genitals.
Read the erotic list below.
Clitoris – lips, tongues , fingers, genitals
Breasts, especially the nipples – open palms or lips in a circling manner
Belly – lips and palms
Thighs, especially the inner sides – lips and palms
Necks, the back – palms or lips
Buttocks – your palms or lips or nose
Not so many parts of men are naturally sensitive to touch. But a man can train any part of his body to respond to his partner’s sensual prompting.
Here’s the list for men:
Chest – palms , face
Penis, glan – fingers, lips, tongues
It’s obvious that petting – light or heavy – depends on the level of sexual activities intended by the couple. It also depends on the relationship of the couple. Pawing a platonic friend could be embarrassing and actionable.
On a lighter note, touching, though neglected, is a subtly powerful means of sensual stimulation.
It works on the sensitivity of the skin – the receptor – which transmits the touch or pressure impulse to the brain where it’s interpreted and transformed into a response – a sensual response in this case.
Lovers holding hands, for instance, creates intimacy in a strange way. It gives the feeling of belonging and connectedness. You’re naturally open to whoever affords you, lovingly, the privilege to hold his or her hands.
Sensual virtues,energy, pathos, passion, strong lust – all could be triggered and transferred by means of skin contact made between two persons that are soulically bound together, particularly in a loving relationship.
Touching your lover releases tension, heals physical and psychological wounds, build bridges between disconnected partners, softens the callous and makes for stronger bonding.
Massaging
The quest to explore the therapeutic effect of touching has probably led to the science and arts of massaging.
Massage means knead, mould, hold press. Briefly put, it means manipulate.
Manipulating your body or your partner’s is a sure way of arousing his or her sensual feelings.
It primarily relaxes the muscles of the body, and additionally heightens sensuality.
Experience has showed that your sensual pleasures increase when you’re relaxed.
You can perfect the science of touch so much so that your spouse responds instinctively anytime or anywhere you touch or grope her/him.
Your touch then becomes a turn-on. She knows it’s yours and what you want. She equally feels and wants you there.
The mystical aspect of touching is that mixing emotion of love with your touch can induce orgasm or some near orgasmic feelings.
Ever heard of those love gurus?

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