Sensuality in Touching
February 5, 2009 at 11:23 am Leave a comment
Touching, a stimulus of the skin , has various implications and responses in human beings. It could be sensual or painful.
You’ve experienced it one time or the other. Your body creeps and develops goose pimples on contact with the softness of a well stacked female body or the erogenous zones of your partner.
Petting
One of the potent ways of rousing or urging yourself or partner sensually is by touching – the body (skin), the genitals, and other spots. You call this petting.
This actually happens during foreplay, love-making, seducing or some other light sexual activities.
There are many features of a female anatomy that respond sensually in varying degrees to touch – with tongues ,fingers ,lips ,or genitals.
Read the erotic list below.
Clitoris – lips, tongues , fingers, genitals
Breasts, especially the nipples – open palms or lips in a circling manner
Belly – lips and palms
Thighs, especially the inner sides – lips and palms
Necks, the back – palms or lips
Buttocks – your palms or lips or nose
Not so many parts of men are naturally sensitive to touch. But a man can train any part of his body to respond to his partner’s sensual prompting.
Here’s the list for men:
Chest – palms , face
Penis, glan – fingers, lips, tongues
It’s obvious that petting – light or heavy – depends on the level of sexual activities intended by the couple. It also depends on the relationship of the couple. Pawing a platonic friend could be embarrassing and actionable.
On a lighter note, touching, though neglected, is a subtly powerful means of sensual stimulation.
It works on the sensitivity of the skin – the receptor – which transmits the touch or pressure impulse to the brain where it’s interpreted and transformed into a response – a sensual response in this case.
Lovers holding hands, for instance, creates intimacy in a strange way. It gives the feeling of belonging and connectedness. You’re naturally open to whoever affords you, lovingly, the privilege to hold his or her hands.
Sensual virtues,energy, pathos, passion, strong lust – all could be triggered and transferred by means of skin contact made between two persons that are soulically bound together, particularly in a loving relationship.
Touching your lover releases tension, heals physical and psychological wounds, build bridges between disconnected partners, softens the callous and makes for stronger bonding.
Massaging
The quest to explore the therapeutic effect of touching has probably led to the science and arts of massaging.
Massage means knead, mould, hold press. Briefly put, it means manipulate.
Manipulating your body or your partner’s is a sure way of arousing his or her sensual feelings.
It primarily relaxes the muscles of the body, and additionally heightens sensuality.
Experience has showed that your sensual pleasures increase when you’re relaxed.
You can perfect the science of touch so much so that your spouse responds instinctively anytime or anywhere you touch or grope her/him.
Your touch then becomes a turn-on. She knows it’s yours and what you want. She equally feels and wants you there.
The mystical aspect of touching is that mixing emotion of love with your touch can induce orgasm or some near orgasmic feelings.
Ever heard of those love gurus?
Entry filed under: Tips. Tags: feeling, sensual, sensuality, sex.

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